Retirement Toolkit

Most private household jobs do not come with pensions or 401(k)s, so planning ahead is essential. If you’ve worked off the books or had inconsistent W-2 income, here’s what matters most:

  • Social Security (credits & 35-year rule): Your benefit is based on your highest-earning 35 years. Any year not reported on payroll counts as a zero. You need 40 credits (about 10 years on the books) to qualify.
  • On-the-books vs. cash: Off-the-books pay won’t build Social Security or unemployment protection. Moving on-the-books in your final working decade can meaningfully raise your future benefit.
  • IRAs & Roth IRAs: Even without an employer plan, you can open your own IRA or Roth IRA and contribute up to the annual limit if you have reported income.
  • Catch-up contributions (50+): After 50, the IRS lets you contribute extra to accelerate savings.
  • Health insurance: In your last working decade, prioritize roles with employer coverage or budget for ACA Marketplace plans so health costs don’t eat your savings.
If you’re on a payroll/W-2:
  • Stay on payroll to earn Social Security credits (keep your W-2s).
  • Use a Roth IRA (and catch-up if you’re 50+).
  • Ask about any employer health plan or use the ACA Marketplace.
If you’re self-employed/1099:
  • Consider a Solo 401(k) or SEP-IRA for higher contribution limits.
  • Plan for quarterly taxes; consider an HSA with a high-deductible plan.
  • Report income to build Social Security credits for later.

Because Social Security depends on reported income, nannies who worked mostly off the books often receive very low monthly checks. It’s never too late to switch to on-the-books roles and build credits for the future.

Use this Social Security Estimator to see your monthly benefit and how adding on-the-books years could increase it.

Social Security Estimator

Estimated monthly benefit in today’s dollars at your planned age
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If you stopped now (no more W-2 years)
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If you keep working to your planned age
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35-year grid: solid = on the books, dashed = if you keep working, empty = zero

Educational estimate only; not financial, tax, or legal advice. Exact SSA math includes wage indexing, year-specific bend points, and claiming rules.

State Auto-IRA Programs

Some states automatically enroll workers in a retirement savings plan if employers don’t offer one. Click your state to see if it participates.

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More Helpful Resources

Ready to go deeper? These quick guides explain how Social Security credits work, how to save on your own with IRA/Roth accounts, and what options exist if you’re self-employed.

On-the-Books & Credits

Social Security requires credits (quarters of coverage). Learn how payroll, W-2s, and reported income build eligibility and increase your benefit.

How Credits Work

DIY Savings: IRA & Roth IRA

No employer plan? You can still save. Compare IRA vs Roth IRA, contribution limits, and catch-up options if you’re 50+.

See IRA Basics

Self-Employed? Solo 401(k) & SEP

For contractors and agency freelancers: higher contribution limits may be possible with Solo 401(k) or SEP-IRA.

Compare Plans

Want Help Planning Your Next Steps?

If you’d like a hand comparing on-the-books scenarios, mapping IRA/Roth choices, or balancing work and school, I’m here to help.

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This toolkit is for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial, tax, or legal advice.

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